Wow, I've read a lot about AffairMatch.com AFTER I signed up. Take my word, the site is a scam ans is HornyMatches.com. Stay away from these sites and spread the word. Are there any real sites out there? I've only found one so far: Plentyoffish.com. This is a free site and you will notice a significant difference in the people on this site. Hats off to the one man show that out this site together.
Good luck and be careful.