I read on Complaints Board about e-Harmoney continuing to match prospects after their subscriptions had expired. Well, I just found out from a friend that they matched me with her even though I am NOT YET a subscriber. In short, e-Harmony took my incomplete profile (including pictures that I did not realize would be shared) and forwarded them to at least 300 people without my permission and without regard to the fact that I am NOT YET subscribed to the service!!! I consider this not only a disservice to me, but to the poor saps who have been led to believe that I am an actual, live subscriber ready to interact with them. Shame on you, e-Harmony!!! I will be removing my profile and pics from your website in a moment. I am not interested in being pimped out!

I Joined e-harmony twice, both times I was matched up with people out of the distance I requested. Also a large age difference. The main complaint is not being able to contact anyone at e-harmony to warn them of a man who was trying to scam money from me saying he was stranded in the UK and needed me to send him 2, 500 because he lost his wallet with important papers in them. This man and I only e-mailed each never met or talked on the telephone. Felt I needed to report this but could not find a way to reach anyone at e-harmony.

Direct all e-Harmony consumer/subscriber c0mplaints to either Marylyn Warren or Antone Johnson at 626-795-4814. Write to them at 300 North Lake Avenue #1111, Pasadena, CA 91101.

When I was a member of E-harmony more than 95% of the men they matched me up with lived at least 1000 miles away from me and the few who lived less than 200 miles away (whom I could count on one hand) closed me out. I live in Boston. E-harmony's matching program couldn't find ANY men in my heavily-populated area with whom to match me? Somethings fishy since as soon as I let my membership expire, E-harmony then magically was suddenly able to find me matches in the Boston area, often sending me one or more a week as "bait" to get me to sign up again. It makes me question their ethics.

Also, I signed up specifying no automatic renewal. They put me in for automatic renewal. I spent hours figuring out how to change it on the computer and e-mailing them to confirm that they had done it. Yet when my membership expired they **still** automatically renewed me! Luckily I had used a specially-generated credit card number that has a dollar-cap and the renewal bounced. Then they e-mailed me asking me to give them a new credit card number since they couldn't automatically renew me and wanted to. Slimey and unethical. Avoid this company. They rip people off and I feel bad for people who are signing up in good faith. I think of what they will have to deal with. It is sad to be scammed.