A TOTAL SCAM DO NOT GIVE THEM YOUR MONEY!!! USE FREE SITES. Eharmony is a predatory services that takes advantage of people. For the money, they provide you nothing. They waste your time sending you matches that are non members/expired members (to draw them back into signing up) or people that are hundreds of miles away and 20 years older than you. This is just to sucker people out of their money. They will not allow you to cancel either and claim to not have my initial email to cancel within 24 hours. How convenient. Well they suckered me out of 200+ bucks, but I will give them their money worth by making sure everyone else knows what scammers they really are. Use plenty of fish!

I am not so very happy about this match company, i would like that eharmony cancels my membership starting nov 15/08
I think its really a waste of time because this doesnt really work.

I don't know if I am the first... I doubt it... but I have been on four a month and all I get is total fat dogs... I specifically stated I wanted thin, average, a few extra pounds etc and I have gotten almost nothing! For $60 you better re-think it...and no I am not ugly... I've never had a problem getting attractive women so be warned... no cuties to be found here...Oh and they sent me matches from far away when I stated it was important that they be close not a single one in my city and K>C> is next door and not squat going on there.

I tried to register on eHarmony. They ask for your race, the options are: White (non-hispanic), African American, Asian, hispanic/latino, etc.

I'm white and of hispanic culture. What am I supposed to check? There should be entries for white hispanic, black hispanic, asian hispanic, etc.

I was an on and off eHarmony user for several years. During that time I have not been on one single date with any person. Match after match led nowhere, the worst were the few that passed all the communication phases and before exchanging phone numbers, all of a sudden they decide to take a break from dating? Huh? Online dating was supposed to revolutionize the singles scene and making dating 'easier, ' but in fact all it's done is make consumers wallets lighter. The problem with online dating services is that people don't seem to take it seriously enough to go past the initial communication/flirting stage and onto actual physical meeting. In that respect eHarmony is not unique. However, I do find fault with the way eHarmony seems to flood the airwaves and commercial spaces with this rosy picture of couple after couple that met, fell in love, and married through eHarmony. Not to mention the high rates they charge for their services. I also have several friends that have used eHarmony and none of them found success. I'd say successful couples that met through eHarmony are the exception and not the rule. Just my 2 cents.