MPWH sucks, big time and they are thieves. I emailed to a friend on the site about the fact the it "sucked" and my account disappeared. I still had 30 days left that I had paid for. Their pool of members is very small compared to the number of people reported to have herpes. They attempt to control the herpes world by not allowing customers to create or support any social events outside the virtual world, further alienating them from the masses. They expect paying customers to get their "virtual support" and pay to have "virtual friends" in their controlled herpes world. DO NOT USE MPWH. Instead, go to a FREE yahoo group and interact with others. Ask them who they use and you will find people who are looking to date are using Positive Singles. They support social groups and encourage people meeting in person even providing an area for members to post local events so they can get together. There is much comfort to be had in meeting in person with a group of friends, old or new, who can support and share with you. It is empowering and uplifting. MPWH is all about money and greed. They do not care about the paying customers who they oppress and take full advantage of as they manipulate their situations and make money of their customer's misery. They should be shut down.