Something about these over the top complaints regarding Selective Search does not pass the smell test. I was treated with dedication, attention and sensitivity during all phases of my time as a client. The staff was completely professional and responsive. I checked references before signing up and they checked out beautifully. I live in a small town and was unable on my own to find the quality of prospect I wanted to marry. Selective Search found her for me after a nine month effort and we are now happily married. The personal attacks on Barbie contained within these anonymous posts are particularly distasteful. I will never forget Barbie calling me in the evening from her home the week of her own wedding. She did this long after I was no longer a client and for no other reason than to check on me. Robin, who signed me up, has become a personal friend of both me and my wife. It would be hard to imagine more honorable people than those who run this wonderful company. Being falsely accused is a terrible injustice and the format of this complaint board allows anyone, even a competitor, to pretend to be a client in order to register a vicious, inaccurate complaint. I will volunteer to discuss this by telephone with anyone who would like to do so. Just contact Selective Search and ask for the telephone number of former client, Carl L from Texas. Selective Search folks are nice people who are really good at what they do. The truth has a power of its own that is obvious and undeniable when you hear it.

Avoid this company at all costs!
If I can save you from making the same mistake that I did, I will be somewhat satisfied for the chaos that Barbie put me through.
I am a stand up guy. I've been called handsome, eligible and stable. A am picky and have a specific criteria. I took this criteria to Selective search.
Barbie took thousands of dollars from me (15k) with a smile on her face. She confidently told me that she had access to beautiful women. This is NOT true. What she has is a short list of call girls who are looking for a free ride. I went on dates that her very small (and ever changing staff) sent me on and within the first 5 minutes was propositioned!
This is a SCAM and they should be sued and put out of business. My friend joined another matchmaking company the same month that I did in California and met his wife! I should have gone with THAT firm but I was sold on Selective Selective and Barbie Adler because it is in Chicago where I live and I "thought" they worked for THE MAN- Wow was I wrong~
BIG MISTAKE! This is a JOKE!